When your friends all start getting married / engaged. Can’t we all just calm the fuck down and be satisfied with not trying to smash through life at break-neck speed.
"Keep on nodding terms with the people we used to be, whether we find them attractive company or not. Otherwise they will turn up unannounced and surprise us, hammering on the door at 4am of a bad night and demand to know who deserted them."
— Joan Didion